The Best Bondage Toys You Can Buy On Amazon

Whether you’re a total bondage newbie or a seasoned BDSM expert, if you’re reading this, you’re probably in the market for some fresh gear. And conveniently, you can buy many of the best bondage toys right on Amazon.

But before you dive into the exciting world of BDSM, it’s imperative that you and your partner are on the same page. The reason why a movie like Fifty Shades of Grey was so maligned by the kink community was because it didn’t depict a healthy BDSM relationship. Both partners need to be informed and consenting in order for BDSM play to be healthy.

So what does that look like? Sit down with your partner before any type of sexual encounter involving these or other BDSM toys goes down. Talk about what you’re both comfortable with — and get into the details. Can I spank you with my hand? How about a …

Spreader Bar Leather Review

As most of my readers probably know, I’ve been practicing BDSM for many years. The fun thing about BDSM is that it never gets boring. Even after all of those years, I still keep discovering new things on a regular basis. Just as with normal sex. Even though BDSM is not always sex for me per se, and sex does not always have to be BDSM but that’s a whole other story.

In all of those years, I’ve never used a spreader bar. I already had some kind of bar, but I always used it to hang it on the ceiling and put wrist cuffs around it, but I never used it for in between my ankles.

Spreader Bar

I was already familiar with various brand. My first wrist cuffs from years ago were also made by this brand. Those were super comfy cuffs. They have a few very fun …

The 10 must-have BDSM toys for beginners

There’s a reason why BDSM toys and equipment are so popular, even among non-kinksters. The best toys enhance playtime between partners, increasing the erotic sensations both a dominant and a submissive feel. BDSM gear can also establish and maintain dominance over one (or more) partners, creating a consensual power play rooted in being restrained, bound, or sexually teased.

Of course, some toys aren’t meant for newcomers; they simply present too much risk. Luckily, there’s plenty of equipment out there for kinksters just getting their bearings in the world of BDSM.

BDSM toys for every kink treasure chest

1) Blindfold
Arguably the easiest kink item to obtain, blindfolds should be in every dom’s collection. Why are blindfolds so fun? Well, they provide sensory deprivation.

When blindfolds are on a sub, they heighten the sounds, feelings, and, in some cases, tastes they are exposed to during play. This makes touching much more …

A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM Toys

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now, onto today’s topic: how to use BDSM toys.

Q: “My long-term partner and I are interested in upping our BDSM game. We’ve done very, very basic stuff like light spanking and gentle hair pulling. We’ve never used toys or props before, and we were looking to make a couple of purchases together. What are some good beginner BDSM toys? I know about things like paddles, nipple clamps, whips, and gags, but is there anything else we haven’t thought about? What’s the …

Talking Shop – Tips for Purchasing BDSM Toys

Who makes the purchasing decisions?
The first thing to consider in a relationship when it comes to shopping is whose job it is to shop. It might be of course that the purchase of toys (or indeed of anything) might be made by the Dom without the sub being aware of what new toys might await him or her. For some this might work really well since it adds the element of surprise about what new toy or item might be added to a session until it’s brought out and used, however sometimes it is nice to know what is coming also.

In our relationship it’s a mix really. Sometimes Grimly buys things without me knowing, and sometimes we buy things together. Sometimes I also like buying items that he doesn’t know about and having the fun of wondering how he will incorporate it into play and also whether or …

BDSM Collars That Everyone Should Know and Own

Collars are rather popular in the BDSM community, and there are many different types of them out there. Based on the type of collar you own, you will send a unique message to other members of the community. Let’s take a look at some of the possible options for collars and see what they mean. 

BDSM Collars: What Are They?

BDSM collars are a big deal in the subculture. They can represent so many things. But before we go into all the details and versions of these sex collars, let’s talk about what they are. 


Well, collars are sex accessories that a person wears around their neck. They are most commonly used in power play, where wearing a collar symbolizes submissiveness


Collars can be made from different materials and have various designs, depending on their purpose. It is not rare to see a collar with a ring

These Rotating Dildos Will Make Your Eyes Roll

How does it feel with your partner’s shaft coupling and swirling in your hot spots? Heaven!

All sexually active women know well there is more than one way to reach climax. Indeed true! Now use Rotating dildo and give yourself the best sexual pleasure. Once you start using rotating dildos you will surely ask for more.

Designed with the dual system of rotating and vibrating, rotating dildos 124 will leave you moaning with pleasure. Rightly said, this “Magic wand” will blow your mind every time you use it.

These randy revolvers rotate all-around your vagina until it purrs with pleasure and satisfaction. If you want to double a more stimulation try it with added attachments like clitoral stimulators and these vibrators will make your eyes roll all night long

Here, you will get detailed information about everything that you should wrap your heads around before using a vibrating dildo 124…

Safety Rules to follow while having Anal Sex

Butt plug is one of the most common sex toys, but how many people know the true purpose of this device? In order to dispel the myths, dispel misunderstanding and define precise terms, here is the guide on anal sex from well known and experienced sexologists.

What is a butt plug?

This is a toy designed to be used during sex with a partner or individually. By stimulating the nerve endings of the anus brings a pleasant sensation. The classic device has a cone-shaped shape, a sharp nose, a limiter that prevents the sphincter from falling out of the muscles, and a wide part at the base for ease of extraction and prevents sticking in.

What is an anal plug for?

The ideal scheme for applying the anal plug is the traditional sex of man and woman. With the introduction of the anal plug in the anus, the vaginal diameter …