The 10 must-have BDSM toys for beginners

There’s a reason why BDSM toys and equipment are so popular, even among non-kinksters. The best toys enhance playtime between partners, increasing the erotic sensations both a dominant and a submissive feel. BDSM gear can also establish and maintain dominance over one (or more) partners, creating a consensual power play rooted in being restrained, bound, or sexually teased.

Of course, some toys aren’t meant for newcomers; they simply present too much risk. Luckily, there’s plenty of equipment out there for kinksters just getting their bearings in the world of BDSM.

BDSM toys for every kink treasure chest

1) Blindfold
Arguably the easiest kink item to obtain, blindfolds should be in every dom’s collection. Why are blindfolds so fun? Well, they provide sensory deprivation.

When blindfolds are on a sub, they heighten the sounds, feelings, and, in some cases, tastes they are exposed to during play. This makes touching much more …

A Beginner’s Guide To BDSM Toys

We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist, to help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous. Now, onto today’s topic: how to use BDSM toys.

Q: “My long-term partner and I are interested in upping our BDSM game. We’ve done very, very basic stuff like light spanking and gentle hair pulling. We’ve never used toys or props before, and we were looking to make a couple of purchases together. What are some good beginner BDSM toys? I know about things like paddles, nipple clamps, whips, and gags, but is there anything else we haven’t thought about? What’s the …

Talking Shop – Tips for Purchasing BDSM Toys

Who makes the purchasing decisions?
The first thing to consider in a relationship when it comes to shopping is whose job it is to shop. It might be of course that the purchase of toys (or indeed of anything) might be made by the Dom without the sub being aware of what new toys might await him or her. For some this might work really well since it adds the element of surprise about what new toy or item might be added to a session until it’s brought out and used, however sometimes it is nice to know what is coming also.

In our relationship it’s a mix really. Sometimes Grimly buys things without me knowing, and sometimes we buy things together. Sometimes I also like buying items that he doesn’t know about and having the fun of wondering how he will incorporate it into play and also whether or …

Safety Rules to follow while having Anal Sex

Butt plug is one of the most common sex toys, but how many people know the true purpose of this device? In order to dispel the myths, dispel misunderstanding and define precise terms, here is the guide on anal sex from well known and experienced sexologists.

What is a butt plug?

This is a toy designed to be used during sex with a partner or individually. By stimulating the nerve endings of the anus brings a pleasant sensation. The classic device has a cone-shaped shape, a sharp nose, a limiter that prevents the sphincter from falling out of the muscles, and a wide part at the base for ease of extraction and prevents sticking in.

What is an anal plug for?

The ideal scheme for applying the anal plug is the traditional sex of man and woman. With the introduction of the anal plug in the anus, the vaginal diameter …