Collars are rather popular in the BDSM community, and there are many different types of them out there. Based on the type of collar you own, you will send a unique message to other members of the community. Let’s take a look at some of the possible options for collars and see what they mean.
BDSM Collars: What Are They?
BDSM collars are a big deal in the subculture. They can represent so many things. But before we go into all the details and versions of these sex collars, let’s talk about what they are.
Well, collars are sex accessories that a person wears around their neck. They are most commonly used in power play, where wearing a collar symbolizes submissiveness.
Collars can be made from different materials and have various designs, depending on their purpose. It is not rare to see a collar with a ring on it that you can use to attach a leash to it. Some people also use collars in the form of a wedding ceremony, but we will talk more about that in a bit.
Of course, for some people, collars are just a fashion statement, and there is no hidden message behind them. It is similar to wearing a choker, for example.
Basic Collars
Basic collars are the simplest versions you can find. They are often used as a fashion statement, and their design is fairly simplistic. That means that they won’t offer a ring for the leash or have any deeper meaning to them. Of course, meaning is something that depends on the wearer, and you can use the basic collar if you feel like it.
The most common material for collars is leather since it is quite durable and sexy. Once again, there are no rules when it comes to wearing collars. And that applies to the BDSM community as well. Just because some people use them in a certain way doesn’t necessarily mean that you need to do the same.
And that is why basic collars are so popular. They give you a lot of different options, and you can experiment with them as you please.
Dress Collars
The second type you can find is dress collars. Now, the first thing we should say is that these collars are not a part of a dress, even though the name suggests it. They are often classy and more sophisticated compared to other types, though, which makes them perfect for wearing on a date or outside.
Dress collars will often use materials that aim for style rather than quality, which means that you’ll be able to find satin, with engravings, polish, and so on. Generally speaking, dress collars look more like necklaces, and they are often used only on special occasions.
It is not rare to find a dress collar with semi-precious stones in it, which will only improve its design.
Posture Collars
Back to BDSM. Posture collars are larger, and the idea behind them is to force the wearer to stay in a certain position. They use rigid materials that will prevent the wearer from moving, and they are a staple in predicament bondage. These collars are designed to cover the entire neck and often spread to a part of the jaw and shoulders (or collarbone).
As the name suggests, they are used to help the wearer maintain a posture extending the neck in the process. Posture collars can be made of any rigid material, and possible options include leather, metal, PVC, rubber, and others. It is also possible to find posture collars with additional rings or locking mechanisms that will make them even more fun to use.
There is a special type of posture collar called neck corset, which serves a similar purpose but is usually a lot more sophisticated.
House Collars
House collars are a bit kinkier compared to the basic ones, and they are perfect for those that just started experimenting with BDSM. As you can guess from the name, the perfect place to wear the collar is your home. These are often equipped with a ring, which can be used to attach the leash or use for bondage.
But house collars can also be worn outside. Usually, people tend to wear them at fetish parties since they are a bit more provocative. If you are looking for a kinky versatile collar, this might be an excellent choice. Other types are more specific, and these are great for almost all forms of BDSM.
These are often made of leather or other similar materials.
Public Collars
These collars are made specifically to be worn in public. Obviously, the design is significantly toned down, and it will allow you to combine it with many different outfits. Naturally, these collars are still worn by submissive people, but they are often a sign that they are in a committed relationship.
As for materials, the most popular option is velvet. While you can still wear leather collars, that option is not as popular for public use. If you find leather collars, they are a lot finer compared to other types, which makes them a perfect option for going out in public.
Since these are some of the most popular models, you’ll be able to find numerous different designs, colors, and models. So, you won’t have any problems finding a model that suits your taste.
Protection Collars
The final entry on the list is reserved for protection collars. If you see someone wearing a protection collar, it means that they are under the protection of a specific Dom. No one is allowed to speak to them, approach them, or interact in any way without asking for permission from the Dominant.
These collars are usually marked by the initials of the dominant, and they have a letter P that marks protection. In the majority of cases, a submissive person that wears this collar has been through a rough or abusive relationship, and they are looking for time to heal.
When they are looking for a Dominant, they will often pick a high-standing Dom from the community, since they will be sure that they will receive protection and no one will bother them until they heal.
