Month: August 2020

Whether you’re a total bondage newbie or a seasoned BDSM expert, if you’re reading this, you’re probably in the market for some fresh gear. And conveniently, you can buy many of the best bondage toys right on Amazon.

But before you dive into the exciting world of BDSM, it’s imperative that you and your partner are on the same page. The reason why a movie like Fifty Shades of Grey was so maligned by the kink community was because it didn’t depict a healthy BDSM relationship. Both partners need to be informed and consenting in order for BDSM play to be healthy.

So what does that look like? Sit down with your partner before any type of sexual encounter involving these or other BDSM toys goes down. Talk about what you’re both comfortable with — and get into the details. Can I spank you with my hand? How about a …

As most of my readers probably know, I’ve been practicing BDSM for many years. The fun thing about BDSM is that it never gets boring. Even after all of those years, I still keep discovering new things on a regular basis. Just as with normal sex. Even though BDSM is not always sex for me per se, and sex does not always have to be BDSM but that’s a whole other story.

In all of those years, I’ve never used a spreader bar. I already had some kind of bar, but I always used it to hang it on the ceiling and put wrist cuffs around it, but I never used it for in between my ankles.

Spreader Bar

I was already familiar with various brand. My first wrist cuffs from years ago were also made by this brand. Those were super comfy cuffs. They have a few very fun …